Regarding Menu styling, there are no visible boxes on my site. I was referring to the rectangular space each <li has for the menu item. On the menu items:
(a) I would like the active (the page am on) menu item to look different than the rest so the user knows the s/he is on that page. For example: currently when I hover over the menu items, their color change to white from grey. When a user clicks on one item (and makes it the active item), I would like that item to remain white until the user switches to another menu item
(b) i would like to change the background color for each menu item so each of the menu items names sits in a different rectangular color like [http://chestermagazine.com]- i know that this example uses cat nav and im using the main nav.