If I tell Flashlight to display a right sidebar - either from the flashlight options pages OR on the page itself from the right hand menu, what happens is this:
the left hand sidebar which displayed the navigation menu and a latest posts section now moves to the right of the main blog display. the order of it is changed, so it now has the latest posts at the top and then the menu. Over (or under) laid on that is the right sidebar information - ~Google ads (which appear right at the top), links and amazon ads which appear underlaid
So to clarify, there is NO left sidebar.
The right sidebar is in the middle of the display next to the main area. It contains left sidebar information but in a new order AND the right sidebar information but one is overlaid on top of the other, it would be nice if we could show pics in here as then I could let you see how it should be and how it is. Now I have to leave up how it is which is terrible so that you can see it. It's at http://www.fellfromgrace.com and I've set it for the terms and postage page. The About page has no right sidebar set at present ...
PLEASE HELP as I do need the right sidebar as well as the left sidebar!
I have not much hair left to tear out since using this theme ..... and as I'm female this is a distinct disadvantage :-)