I finally managed to get Eunoia to work the way I wanted to with self-hosted and Youtube videos: http://www.epicaffair.com/san-diego/recent/
However, I need help getting a thumbnail to show under "Related Entries" at the bottom of each post. I got it to work on my portfolio page ( http://www.epicaffair.com/san-diego/videographers/ ) by adding a featured image to the portfolio item but having it link to the blog post, but I don't want to have to do that for each blog post. Is there a way to add a Featured Image without it showing up in the post, or just adding an image to be the thumbnail? Under "Layout & Settings" I set slideshow behavior to "Display only single image on overview pages...except the first one on single entries", but whenever I add a featured image it shows up on both the overview and single entry.